When Therapy Isn’t Enough to Heal the Hurt…
You’ve done the work. You’ve gone to therapy—maybe more than once.
But the arguments still flare. The silence still stings. The intimacy still feels out of reach.
You fight with your partner.
You feel profound disappointment, frustration, or grief.
Unfaithfulness has created a breach of trust—even small lies chip away at your sense of safety.
And you know you don’t want to live this way.
You’re not broken—but something deeper needs to be healed.
If traditional couples therapy has failed you, you’re not alone. The issue may not be your relationship…
What If It’s Not the Argument… But the Pattern Beneath It?
Many couples unknowingly operate from subconscious stories and old emotional imprints that shape how they show up in love.
You want closeness—but shield yourself from being hurt.
You crave honesty—but end up retreating, deflecting, or avoiding the full truth.
You start wondering:
- Why can’t I stop reacting?
- Why doesn’t my partner see the work I’ve done?
- How did we grow so far apart?
- Is there hope?
Whether you’re facing constant tension, emotional shut-down, betrayal, or simply feeling like roommates…
There is a way back to joy.
Introducing a New Path to Lasting Change
After more than two decades of traditional counselling and deep intuitive practice, I created the Joyana Cara Method—a transformational process that clears the root cause of the emotional patterns standing between you and a thriving relationship.
I don’t just mediate conflict; I decode it.
Imagine finding honest connection, compassionate communication, and real intimacy with your partner—while learning to love and trust yourself along the way.
What Makes This Different
You’ve likely tried a lot already—therapy, communication tools, self-help books, maybe even time apart. And while those approaches may have helped you cope or survive, they haven’t helped you truly shift.
That’s where the Joyana Cara Method comes in.
It doesn’t ask you to talk around your pain or simply “hear each other”—it helps you clear the emotional imprints and inherited patterns that created the pain in the first place.
The Joyana Cara Method goes beyond communication tools and conflict mediation. It’s a holistic, intuitive process that gently uncovers the emotional root causes of what’s not working—and supports real healing at a deep level.
This isn’t about a quick fix… or fixing you.
It’s about clearing what’s in the way of the connection you both want.
The Joyana Cara Method is a holistic, intuitive process that gently uncovers the emotional root causes of what’s not working—and supports real healing at a deep level.
You’ll stop maintaining your relationship.
You’ll transform it by turning stuck dynamics into pathways for trust, intimacy, and lasting joy.
A Glimpse Into What’s Possible—When the Right Work is Done
These results aren’t rare.
They’re the natural outcome of deeper healing when we shift the energetic patterns behind the pain.
Imagine…
- Hearing your partner spontaneously share something personal—without prompting.
- Tackling a DIY project together without conflict—or casualties.
- Feeling seen and safe—even in vulnerability.
- Emotional triggers that used to send you spiralling… now barely register.
- Your partner chooses honesty because the fear and shame no longer hold power.
- You both find yourselves more attuned—not only to each other, but to your kids, your body, your spirituality, and life as a whole.
Real-Life Transformation: Arden & Jacob’s Story
Arden and Jacob came to me in a last-ditch effort to save their 14-year marriage after an affair shattered their trust. Despite 18 months of traditional therapy, alternative healing, and even lie detector tests, nothing created lasting change. Arden felt exhausted and emotionally raw, while Jacob was weighed down by shame and dishonesty.
Through just 5 sessions using the Joyana Cara Method, they uncovered deep emotional patterns, rebuilt communication, and rediscovered safety, honesty, and connection—with each other and their children.
“This has been the most challenging experience of my life, but if there is any chance of our marriage being successful, this deeper healing is absolutely the way.”
~Arden
What Can Shift With the Joyana Cara Method
Clients describe these shifts as life-changing:
- Strengthened emotional connection and compassion.
- Communication that’s clear, caring, and calm.
- Rekindled intimacy and affection—emotional and physical.
- Restored trust—even after betrayal.
- Old lies replaced with honest conversations.
- Money conversations without tension or conflict.
- No more “nagging,” “back seat driving,” or silent withdrawal.
- “Coupleship” comes before friends and family.
- Alignment around parenting—even with adult children.
- Navigating chronic illness or life stress without turning against one another.
- Feeling grounded, whole, and like a true team again.
- Accepting that your needs are valid while balancing those of your partner.
- Being able to wallpaper a room together… without wanting to kill each other. 😉
Is This Right for You?
Healing doesn’t happen overnight. It happens with intention, space, and the right support.
That’s what the Joyana Cara Method offers—a clear, compassionate container for transformation.
Book your free 20-minute Good Fit Call—just you, your partner, and me—to see if this process is the right fit for your relationship.
There’s no pressure—just a chance to explore whether this path feels right for you both.
FAQ’s
What if we’ve already tried therapy and it didn’t work?
That’s often when people find me. This work goes deeper than communication techniques or behaviour strategies—it addresses what’s underneath them.
What areas do you serve?
I am licensed to work in the province of Ontario. My office is located in Guelph, Ontario.
Can we do this work virtually?
Yes, as long as you have a computer with a camera that allows me to see both partners simultaneously.
Does my insurance cover this?
Many insurance companies cover this as Couples Therapy. However, each third-party policy is different, so check with your group insurance provider for services typically listed under Paramedical Services (I have a BSW and an RSW).
If you do not have private insurance or it’s not covered by your plan, fees are eligible as a medical expense on your Ontario Tax Return.
How do you handle conflicts or disagreements during sessions?
I view all behaviour through the lens of patterns. I don’t take sides, and there’s no judgment. I guide you to work through the underlying pattern that is driving the behaviour so you can find a healthier resolution.
Is there a wait list?
Because this work is intensive, I limit the number of couples I work with at any given time. So, at times, there may be a waiting list.
My partner is abusive. Will this help?
No, the abusive individual would require individual work to stop the abusive behaviour before entering couples work of any type. There must be emotional safety in the sessions, and that cannot be created in a situation where abuse is ongoing.
Will therapy help if there’s infidelity or trust issues?
As long as both people are open to sharing candidly, we can work through these patterns. There is zero tolerance for dishonesty during our sessions